Jennifer, i’m really, really sorry that you experienced that. that’s awful, absolutely.

i am going to put these links here as a place to start, but it’s the last of the emotional labor i’ll expend here:

https://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/explaining-white-privilege-to-a-broke-white-person-shesaid/

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/in-theory/wp/2015/09/24/why-intersectionality-cant-wait/?utm_term=.8c60b58a64ee