thank you! I have made it clear from the get-go that putting on my oxygen mask first means I have more of what I need to make sure she has the best life I can give her. I'm not a perfect parent by any means, and I'm sure I'll fuck up more than once as we make our way to and through puberty and menopause together (GOD HELP US LOL) but she is an empathetic child who also understands the value of self-care, so I'm not the worst mom to ever exist either...